How to join · Damsel In Defense
How to join Damsel In Defense. Costs, kits and your first month.
Facts checked Oct 4, 2026 · 6 minute read
At a glance
Joining Damsel In Defense in numbers.
$99
Damsel Pro start
A limited-time offer, says the company; kit valued at $200
$0
Affiliate start
Approval needed; 15% on online orders
20%–45%
Commission on your sales
Rate rises with monthly sales
$10/mo
Website fee
First month free for new Pros
Not published
Monthly minimum
Pay tiers start at $50 a month
13 areas
Shipping limits
States and cities where some items can't ship
Starter kits
What it costs to start.
$99
Damsel Pro kit
A physical kit the company values at $200: a stun device, Sixth Sense alarm, Step Off entry alarm, Sock It Slim, Breakaway keychain, Break Free bracelet, Cover Up drink cover, Road Trip auto tool, Slim Shelly RFID wallet, two S.A.F.E. Hearts books and a 50%-off stun device coupon.
Then $10 a month for your website and virtual office.
Free
Affiliate
No kit and no inventory. You get a unique code, a virtual dashboard and 15% commission on online orders, with no monthly fee.
Applicants need 100+ Facebook followers, 1,000+ Instagram or TikTok followers, or 50+ YouTube subscribers.
How to sign up
Becoming a Damsel In Defense Damsel Pro, step by step.
Check your local laws
Stun devices or pepper spray can't ship to some states and cities. Read the company's state restrictions page and your own state and city rules first.
Find a Pro to join under
Ask the Pro who introduced you, or use the Damsel Pro locator. Your sponsor is your first source of training.
Choose Pro or affiliate
Pros buy the $99 kit and can sell at parties and events. Affiliates join free, sell online with a code, and must meet a social-following minimum.
Set up your profile
Sign up at my.damselindefense.net. This is step one on the company's own join page.
Buy your kit
Pay $99 for the Damsel Pro kit. Shipping is free. The $10 monthly website fee starts after your first month.
Get your tax details ready
Pros are independent sellers, not employees. Keep receipts from day one and have your tax details ready for commission payments.
Watch your email
The company sends a Go To Guide and details of the 30 Day Stunning Start program for new Pros.
How you earn
The pay plan, in brief.
Damsel's Monthly Income and Impact Plan (published July 2025) pays a percentage of what you sell each month. The rate climbs with your monthly sales, from 20% up to 45%, and you don't need a team for the higher rates. From $600 a month you also earn a leader bonus on four levels of your team.
Full details, pros and cons are on the Damsel In Defense profile. Before you join, ask for the company’s current compensation plan and income disclosure.
Key points
- 20% commission at $50 to $150 a month in sales.
- 25% at $300 a month, plus a spot on the nationwide Damsel Pro locator.
- 30% at $600 a month, plus a 4% leader bonus on four levels.
- 35% / 40% / 45% at $1,000 / $2,000 / $4,000+ a month, with leader bonuses of 5%, 6% and 7%.
- From $150 a month you also get 50%-off product coupons; from $300, product credit of 10% to 30% of sales.
- Affiliates earn a flat 15% on referred online orders.
Staying active
| Requirement | Amount | When | Note |
|---|---|---|---|
| Website and virtual office | $10 | Monthly | First month free for Pros; no fee for affiliates |
| Sales to earn commission | $50+ | Monthly | Lowest pay tier; no minimum to stay active is published |
| Leader bonus | $600+ | Monthly | Your own sales needed for the 4-level leader bonus |
Your first 30 days
A simple plan for your first month.
Days 1–3
Learn every kit item
Use each product until you can show it in under a minute. A calm, confident demo matters with safety products.
Days 1–7
Know your area's rules
Save the state restrictions list. Know which items you can sell in person and which you can ship to friends in other states.
Week 1
Book your first parties
Ask two or three friends to host. In the company plan, host rewards start at a $25 coupon for a $200 party.
Weeks 2–3
Try one event
Damsel lists expos, retail displays, home parties and online parties as places to sell. Start with one local event.
Day 30
Check your Stunning Start
Company program: $300 in sales in your first 30 days earns a $100 shopping spree; $600 or $1,000 earns $200.
Join with a Damsel Pro
Find a Damsel In Defense Damsel Pro to sign up with.
Are you a Damsel In Defense Damsel Pro?
People reading this page are deciding who to join with. A Direct Sales Aid profile puts you here.
Browse every Damsel In Defense Damsel Pro by state · or join directly on the Damsel In Defense website
Before you sign
Good to know.
FAQ
Questions about joining Damsel In Defense.
How much does it cost to join Damsel in Defense?
The Damsel Pro kit is $99 under the company's current limited-time offer, with free shipping. After the first month there is a $10 monthly website fee. The affiliate option is free.
Is Damsel in Defense free to join?
Yes, as an affiliate. Affiliates pay nothing, earn 15% on online orders and pay no monthly fee, but must apply and meet a social-following minimum. Damsel Pros pay $99 for the kit.
Can I sell Damsel in Defense in every state?
Not every product. Stun devices can't ship to several states and cities, and pepper spray can't ship to Massachusetts, New York or the US Virgin Islands. See the company's state restrictions page.
Do you have to buy inventory?
The company doesn't list an inventory purchase as a requirement. Its plan does reward Pros with product bonuses on inventory orders, so ask your sponsor how much stock you really need.
How do Damsel Pros get paid?
Pros earn a commission on their monthly sales: 20% at the lowest tier, up to 45% at $4,000 or more. From $600 a month they also earn a leader bonus on four levels of their team.
Can I join without a sponsor?
The sign-up form is online, but most people join under an existing Pro. Use the Damsel Pro locator to find one near you.
Can I quit and return products?
Customer returns must be unused, unopened and within 30 days, with return shipping at your cost. A buyback policy for Pros is not published, so ask the company or your sponsor first.
Sources, checked Oct 4, 2026: Damsel in Defense: Join Damsel (2026); Damsel in Defense: Damsel Pro kit and Monthly Income and Impact Plan (pub 7/19/2025); Damsel in Defense: Affiliate program; Damsel in Defense: State restrictions (last reviewed 01/2026); Damsel in Defense: Returns and exchanges; Damsel in Defense: Damsel Pro sign-up; Direct Sales Aid: Damsel in Defense profile (product prices). Prices and requirements change; confirm the current terms with Damsel In Defense or your sponsor before you buy. Direct Sales Aid is an independent directory and isn’t affiliated with Damsel In Defense.